us females that luv the company of a bullshytin azzzzz nigga n the females who learn from them or learn to except them lmao close ur ears if u dont like heavy metal

Why do us females get mad when u find out that ur other half been talkin to another female then call them to basically say that that's ur man when he's the 1 that gave his # for her to contact him basically what I'm sayin don't nobody owe u anything but the person u with. Then why do guys lie when not neccessary for ex don't tell a female u lost ur phone or it was stolen n when u she call the phone rings then she get the mistery # first then ur actual # where she is now contacting the other female lol. This is what I just went through yesturday n the female had a nerve to tell me not to call that # which is a person I used to date but we jus cool now but she expected me to give her info on sayin that we deal with each other hmmm I'd I wanted I could really say some real shyt that would f#ck her head up but why should I its her prob not mine I don't get paid for issuing info or investigating. Real women would go straight to the prob little gurls want info to make them cry n then expect sympathy. Real men could admit to their problem or mistake. So no mature guys just don't care n continue to shuck n f#ck lol. N this situation for me imma look out for me cuz she already know what she dealing wit especially if I know. Some ppl are good to b cool with but not with.

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Permalink Reply by Sinatra on February 4, 2010 at 8:35am

ok first....damn homie paraphrase..lol i admire the passion but good gravy thats a long title..lol.. but back to the issue i think its a double edge sword in a lot of ways. see on the one hand..a nigga could just be being a nigga lying and all that because he wants to try and get away with murder or what not and just do him...but on the other hand...when you think about it you lie to hide and the reasons for hiding are infinite...its about being able to communicate. i have to trust that you will at least give what i am sayin to you a fare chance before you tell me its a lie or start to srceam on me..a person has to believe that they can talk about things with someone they really trust. its like if some one says," hey, how you feel" you know that you cant really talk to that person so you lie..but if its some body you can open up to you would tell them the whole story. so basically im sayin the truth has to be told just as much as it has to be accepted...i have told the truth about many things but was treated as a liar because the truth wasnt accepted. try to do your best to open up those lines of communication and see if it works out better in the future...but if you have an aint sh!t nigga then you just screwed and need to learn how to pick the good from the bad...
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Permalink Reply by nicky on February 4, 2010 at 8:52am

Well me that was what I had but we still cool.I was the 1 gettin the call from suppose to b his gurl idk n don't care we r friends n that's what it gonna b. She has the no good nigga I know that n she know that she jus wanted me to feed her with info so she can have somethin to argue about but I didn't give her what she wanted. On the other hand she says she's his fiance wit pride. I jus laughed b cus he's a good friend but not a good bf or anything more. He denies her but still have his play time wth others. I jus didn't appreciate the phone calls or texts I was gettin that's all I always respect other ppl relationships but its crazy when ppl don't respect their own. She was nice about it but I hate when a female go to the other female when she should go to her man. But when we know we dealin wit somethin that aint good for us we tend to dig deep to c how bad it really is when the first excuse for that type of behavior is deep enough.